I love to say, we are not called to "do church" but to live life.

Yesterday, I bought a great book by Jurgen Moltmann, "Experiences in Theology". He say it better than I did:

What the church is about is something more than the church. The church is about life in proximity to the kingdom of God, and about the experience and praxis of the justice and righteousness of that kingdom. So Christian theology also has to do with more than Christian self preservation in public life. It has to do with the presentation of public life against the horizon of God's coming kingdom. Christian theology is theologia publica. It is public theology for the sake of the kingdom. So it must be aligned and think not just intra-textually, but always correlatively too. It has to be both 'in accordance with Scripture' and contextual.

Fuh...like my NT lecturer used to say, go grapple with it.